With more than 80% of Thais feeling lonely, mindful listening is an essential remedy.
Humans are inherently social.
Loneliness occurs when bonding needs are not met, ranging from mild to clinical levels.
(Conducted by Assoc Prof Somboon Jarukasemthawee of Chulalongkorn University)
It affects all demographics and education levels.
Urban residents experience it more than rural ones.
20% of Thais say AI understands them better than family.
"It should be zero. It means that parents aren’t doing their jobs as well as AI," said Assoc Prof Somboon.
To combat loneliness, deep connections matter more than wealth, fame or many acquaintances.
Dating and marriage are not the antidotes.
"Close relationships are marked by people we can turn to in distress. Our study confirms high social support reduces loneliness,"
said Sorrayut Ratanapojnard, co-founder of JitArsa Bank.
Loneliness also grows from lack of mindful listening:
Listening is not just hearing, it means being fully engaged and connecting with others on a deeper level.
Instead of trying to change others, focus on truly listening.
Listening also recognises the other’s self-worth.
It helps others and also allows us to gain perspective on our own struggles.